The blunders, tribulations and hot messes from a wanna-be fashion and design-ista!
Sunday, January 17, 2010
One is silver and the other gold.
I often want to reach out and ask these friends who don't call back if they are mad at me or if I have done something wrong but I don't want to sound dramatic or needy. I feel like friendships take effort no matter what else is going on. I might not have kids but I do have other obligations and priorities and have ALWAYS made an effort to remember birthdays, arrange nights out, get people together. I always tried to make it to birthdays and celebrations. But now, even though I'm 3000 miles away from most of my good friends, over the past few years, I have started only making efforts with the ones who make an effort back. It might seem selfish but I have learned that some friendships I cherish weren't cherished back (or aren't) and I just have to let them go. It's not anyone's particular fault but just two people growing apart. I won't lie, sometimes I think that sometimes it is a lack of effort that causes the growing apart but still, it is a feeling that makes me sad, not mad.
My goal is to pick up the phone a little more often and just say hi. EVEN when I don't think I have anything new to share.
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hey, did i not call you back? i have kids yes but i'd still love to hear from you. you don't mind talking while there is total mayhem in the background right?ReplyDelete
i still think of you as my friend. just my far away friend who i rarely talk to and who forgot to visit me when she came east (wink wink).
what dover joined together let no man tear asunder?
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